How do I know if I am being flirted with?
Eyes
- The person you are with will hold a longer gaze with you
- There will be lots of eye contact along with an arched eyebrow
- Winking of any form
- Rapid eye movement and quick blinking
- Their pupils will be dilated and eye contact will be maintained
Mouth
- You will see lots of smiling from them
- Lip licking or puckering of lips
- An open mouth and the showing of teeth
- Using their tongue to touch their lips or teeth
Hair
- They will touch, play with or stroke their hair often with maintained eye contact with you
Body Movement
- While holding your gaze they will push their chest/breast outwards
- They will lean towards you while maintaining you eye contact
- They will “mirror” or copy your body position
- While holding your gaze while they move to music
- They will sit with their legs crossed pointing towards you
- They will sit facing you with an open-legged style posture
- The showing of flesh from the arm or thigh
Touching
- They will play with their hands and often play with your hands too
- You will find they will want to touch you and find some excuse to do so
- They will offer to feed you by placing food into your mouth
The way they speak
- You will hear lots of laughter from them
- They will copy the speed and tone of your voice
- If you are in a group you will find yourself being singled out by the person interested in you